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Noqonuniy jinsiy aloqaning keng tarqalishi

19.04.2012
Anas bin Molik (ra) rivoyat qiladilar: “Men sizlarga shunday bir hadis aytib berayki, uni mendan bo'lak kishidan eshitmagaysizlar! Janob Rasulullohdan (SAWS) bunday deb eshitgan erdim: "Qiyomat qoim bo'lmog'i arafasida sodir bo'ladigan shart sharoitlar shuldurkim, o'rtadan (din) ilmi ko'tarilg'ay, jaholat, ichkibozlik, zino kuchayg'ay hamda erkaklar kamayib, ayolla rko'payib ketganidan hatto ellikta ayolga bir erkak to'g'ri kelg'ay.” (Al-Buxoriy 8, 800 A) Payg’ambarimiz Muhammad s.a.w.ning ushbu so’zlari hozirgi davrdagi ahvolni juda aniq qilib ifodalab bergandir. San-Frantsisko va Sidney shaharlari “geylar ozodligini” nishonlashi bilan mashhurdir. Nudist koloniyalari, escort klublar, o’smir yoshlar orasidagi homiladorlikning o’sishi, zino – bular hammasi hozirgi kunda shu darajada ommalashib ketganki, insoniyat bu axloqsizlik to’lqiniga qarshi kurashda mag’lubiyatga uchrashi aniq deb tuyulishi mumkin.Chunki insoniyat allaqachon bu amallarni “yangi avlod” amallari deb qabul qilish chegarasiga yetib kelgan. Boz ustiga, har bir yangi avlod bilan birga buzuqlik darajasi o’sib bormoqda; masalan, hozirgi kunda pornografiya oynaijahon va Internet orqali har bir xonadonga kirib bormoqda va farzandlarimiz fikrlash tarziga juda yosh davrdan boshlab o’z ta’sirini o’tkazmoqda. Gomoseksualizm dunyoning barcha burchaklarida qo’llab-quvvatlanmoqda.Geylar harakatining ba’zi oqlovchilari tabiatan gey bo’lib tug’ilganliklarini da’vo qilishgacha ham borganlar. Bu oddiy hiyla-nayrang bo’lib, ular bundan o’zlarining behayo xulq-atvorlarini yashirish uchun foydalanmoqdalar. Gomoseksualizm – bu hayot tarzi bo’lib, uni inson o’zi tanlaydi. Alloh taolo har bir narsani juft qilib yaratgan, va kimki bunga qarshi chiqsa, albatta Alloh Taolo bu qilmishi uchun uni javobgarlikka tortadi. Yuqorida zikr qilib o’tilgan Qur’on oyatlari va Payg’ambarimiz s.a.w.ning turli hadislari zino va fohishalik Islomda man qilingan amallar ekalnigini aniq qilib ko’rsatmoqda; bundan tashqari ushbu amallarni doimiy ravishda qilib borish gunohlarni o’girlashtirib boradi, ulardan tezda voz kechgan insonni esa Alloh taolo o’sha onning o’zida mukofotlaydi. Oddiy shartlarga asoslangan holda Islomiy talablar quyidagilardan iborat: Yigit va qizga nikohdan oldin jinsiy yaqinlik qilish man qilingan. Jinsiy yaqinlik faqat qonunan er-xotin bo’lgan kishilarga ruhsat etilgan. Nikoh shartnomasiga ko’ra, jinsiy yaqinlik faqatgina er-xotinga tegishli bo’lgan ularning shaxsiy ishi hisoblanadi; buning ma’nosi shuki, er va xotin o’zlarining “to’shak sirlari”ni ortiqcha qizuquvchan ko’z-quloqlardan asrab yurishlari lozim. Er-xotinning ikkoviga ham boshqa birov bilan noqonuniy jinsiy aloqada bo’lish man qilingan.Ya’ni, er-xotinning ikkoviga ham islomiy bo’lmagan “xotin alamshsih” deb nomlangan buzuq kechalarda qatnashish, fohishaxonalarga borish, boshqa birovning turmush o’rtog’i, yoki turmush qurmagan erkak yo ayol bilan jinsiy aloqaga kirishish man qilingan. Agar erkak kishi birdan ortiq ayolga uylangan bo’lsa (maksimum to’ttagacha), bu holatda unga to’rttala ayoliga teng munosabatda bo’lish sharti bilan ularning har biri bilan alohida jinsiy yaqinlik qilish ruhsat berilgan Shubha hosil qilgan masalalarda Qur’on va Payg’ambarimiz Muhammad s.a.w. sunnatlariga murojaat qilmoq lozim. Ota-ona roli. Farzandlarimiz har kuni oynaijahon, filmlar, video, Internet, gazeta, jurnal, kitoblar va o’rtoqlaridan “jinsiy inqilob” mavzu’siga doir obrazlarga yuzlanadilar. Bular yoshlar miyasini axloq-odob, sipoyilik, qadr-qimmat - eskirgan narsa degan g’oyalar bilan zaharlashmoqda.Agar biz farzandlarimizga hayot haqiqatlarini aytib bermasak, va madaniy qarash nuqtai nazaridan, eng muhimi islomiy qarash nuqtai nazaridan qaysi xulq-atvor maqbul, qaysisi maqbul emasligini tushuntirmasak, unda biz ham farzandlarimiz bilan birga ularning shahvatparastlik, giyohvandlik, o’smir yoshlar orasidagi homiladorlik, fohishalik, alkogolizm va qimorbozlik kabi illatlar iskanjasiga tushib qolgani uchun jazolanishimiz lozim.Metodologiya quyadagicha bo’lishi lozim: 10-12 yoshgacha bo’lgan qiz farzandlarimizga maslahat. Qizim, hozir sening tanangda seni ayol bo’lishingga tayyorlab boruvchi o’zgarishlar sodir bo’lmoqda. Bu o’zgarishlar bilan birga bir kunmas bir kun ona bo’lishing mas’uliyati ham qadam bosib kelmoqda. Bu o’zgarishlar ko’kragingda, yuzing, bo’ying, vazningda sodir bo’lib, shu bilan birga bu davrda har oy sistemali ravishda senda hayz qoni kela boshlaydi. Hayz ko’rishning qo’rqinchli tomoni yo’q, aksincha, bu Alloh taoloning bir mo’jizasi deb qabul qil. Har oy hayz ko’rish orqali ayol kishining bachadoni homilador bo’lish uchun urug’lanishga tayyorlanishi – bu Allohning bir mo’jizasidir. Avvalgi avlodga nisbatan hozirgi avlod tanasidagi ushbu o’zgarishlar ancha barvaqtroq boshlangan. Bolalar biz tasavvur qila olganimizdan ham tezroq balog’atga etishmoqda. Oldingi avlod yosh qizlarida hayz oyi 13 yoshdan boshlangan bo’lsa, hozirgi avlod yosh qizlarida 9 yoshdan boshlab hayz ko’rish boshlangan. Bu degani, agar sen hozirdan jinsiy hayot boshlasang, sen tez orada homilador bo’lishing mumkin.Lekin, agar sen bu yoshda homilador bo’lsang, hayotingni istasang-istamasang butunlay o’zgartirishingga to’gri keladi. Barcha orzularing, hayotdagi maqsadlaring, kar’yera qilish xoxishlaringni orqaga surib, tamoman o’tmishda qo’ldirinshing kerak bo’ladi. Sen o’z tanangdan mamnun bo’lishing kerak. Vujudingda turlicha gormonal o’zgarishlar sodir bo’lib, bular o’z navbatida emotsional o’zgarishlarga va kayfiyatingning tez-tez o’zgarib turishiga olib keladi. Shuning uchun bu davr sen uchun qarama-qarshilik va ixtilof davri bo’ladi, ota-onalar bu davrda odatdagidan ko’proq bosiq bo’lishlari va masalalarni farzandlari bilan muloyim va tushunish ohangida muhokama qilishlari lozim. Eng muhim ehtiyotkorlik so’zlari sen uchun - bu o’pishish va jinsiy yaqinlik qilishga da’vat qiladigan tengdosh ortoqlaring qistovidan chetda yurmoqdir. Ba’zi o’smirlar juda achchiq piching otishlari va agarda ularga qo’shilmasang, seni ajratib qo’yishlari mumkin.Shu sababli sen o’zingni yakka his qila boshlaysan. Quloq solma ularga! Sen “Alloh taoloning amrlarini bajaryapman” deb ishoninshing va ularga oddiygina qilib “Yo’q, buning menga qizig’i yo’q” deb javob berishing lozim. Bu qarordan sen hech qachon afsus chekmaysan. Xususan katta yoshdagi yigit va erkaklardan iloji boricha uzoqda yur. Ular seni sovg’a, gullar va sevgi haqidagi soxta so’zlar bilan boshingni aylantirib, makr qilib bokiraligingdan, qizligingdan ayirishga harakat qiladilar. Ishlarini bitirganlaridan so’ng esa seni tashlab, boshqa yana bir begunoh qizni o’zlarining yangi o’ljalariga aylantirish payiga tushadilar.Bu orada esa sen senga aziz bo’lgan ko’pgina narsalardan ayrilasan: - Sen qizlik iffatingni yo’qotasan; - Qur’onda zino qilmaslik haqidagi Alloh taolo amriga xilof ish qilgan bo’lasan; - ushbu jinsiy yaqinlikdan so’ng sen istamaganda homilador bo’lib qolishing mumkin. (ko’pchilik qizlarning “birinchi jinsiy yaqinlikdan so’ng homilador bo’lish xavfi oz” kabi so’zlarga ishonishlari esa juda katta xato hisoblanadi). - ushbu jinsiy yaqinlik tufayli sen tanosil kasalliklardan (bundan OITS ham mustasno emas) birini yuqtirishing mumkin. Bunday kasalliklarning ba’zilari uchun davo yo’q: masalan gerpes va tanosil a’zosidagi so’gal. Bunday kasalliklardan ba’zilarini esa to’g’ri davolantirilmasa, kelajakda seni farzand ko’rish baxtidan mahrum qilishi mumkin.Yoki ta’sir doirasi kengaygan bachadon raki kasalligiga olib kelishi mumkin. 10-12 yoshgacha bo’lgan o’g’il farzandlarimizga maslahat. O’g’lim, hozir sening tanangda turlicha o’zgarishlar sodir bo’lmoqda. Bu o’zgarishlar kelajakda bir kunmas-bir kun ota bo’lishing uchun zamin yaratib beradigan yigitlik davriga kirishingga seni tayyorlab boradi. Bu davrda ovozingning o’zgarishini sezishing mumkin; turli tana a’zolaringda husnbuzar va sochlarning paydo bo’lishini ko’rishing mumkin.Tushdagi ihtilomlar bu yoshdagi o’g’il bolalarga xos xususiyatdir. Shu bilan birga kayfiyatining tez-tez o’zgarib turishi ham. Tabiiy badan hidlari ancha kuchayadi, shu uchun shaxsiy gigienaga juda katta e’tibor berishing va va tez-tez dushga kirib turishing shart. Vujuding tez ravishda o’sa boshlaydi. Tanang maksimum jismoniy foyda olishi uchun esa ko’proq ovqatlanishing, badan tarbiyasi bilan shug’ullanishing va uxlashing kerak bo’ladi. Ba’zi o’rtoqlaring qizlar bilan jinsiy yaqinlik qilishga undashi, qilmasang ustingdan kulishi mumkin. Sen o’zingga ishonishing va Qur’on va Payg’ambarimiz Muhammad s.a.w. sunnatlariga asoslaninb ish qiladigan sog’lom fikr sohibi bo’lishing lozim. Sen har bir qiz va ayolga hurmat, muloyimlik va mehribonlik bilan muomala qilishing lozim – qandaydir bir molni ishlatgandek ishlatib, xo’rlab, song tashlab ketish muomalasida emas. Oynaijahon, gazeta va jurnallarda prezervativ OITS kasalliklarini yuqtirib olishdan saqlaydi, kabi reklamarni ko’rishing mumkin. Esingda bo’lsin, Islom buni bizga o’rgatmaydi. Islomda xavfsiz jinsiy yaqinlik – bu faqat nikohdagi jinsiy yaqinlikdir.
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Poyraz 18.12.2013 в 13:53
Awesome inspiration!!! My crtveiae juices are flowing. Thanks Shannon. Just the other day I whipped up a couple of burlap pumpkins...I've a little more to do before I take their picture and get my post written. So glad you party will be hanging around for a while :D
Hailey 19.12.2013 в 15:55
dit :Et la moyenne de oui n’est que de 89%.Je trvuoe que ce n est pas si mal. Si on e9tait e0 100%, ce serait inquie9tant. C est justement gre2ce aux divergences d opinion qu on avance.Pour moi la de9mocratie n est pas le meilleur syste8me, mais le moins pire (ok e7a revient au meame). Et c est inte9ressant de re9fle9chir aux autres syste8mes (les comprendre, sans force9ment eatre pour).Et ces 64 et 89% ne font que confirmer que la de9mocratie, c est quand meame vraiment bien : on peut ne pas eatre en accord avec elle et ne pas craindre pour sa vie.
Edenilson 21.12.2013 в 01:54
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Anderson 21.12.2013 в 17:11
Garvey dit :Now Obama has insulted French President Sarkozy! Oh no! Obama sent a lteetr to Chirac, saying he looks forward to working with him the next four years. Le Figaro, French newspaper is horrified at the faux pas. Doesn t Obama ever consult his staff before acting? Sarkozy is the President there! It s like Sarko writing to George Bush and saying he looks forward to working with him. Chirac is the FORMER president.
Ziggy 28.12.2013 в 03:17
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Selim 15.02.2014 в 19:27
i do agree that comparing the too is hlighy unfair...n the newer one does with with greater panache...however I dnt think tht SRK was the best choice.He lacks the physical presence to pull off such a character. Agreed most of the real life Don's are physically inconspicuous, however they don't pull off jumps from airplanes or enter a rival's den alone...Even though he has worked hard SRK can't look intimidating and manages to look like a pesky bug waiting to get squashed ..Akshay Kumar would have made a better Don
Bruna 16.02.2014 в 01:52
SRK and his acting skllis give some credibility to the movie, which otherwise is a bad film............arjun rampal nd his character should have been done without..........boman irani's performance was appalling...and so was om puri's........in spite of having such good actors farhan could not get much out of them.........the script was definitely poor..........The movie was flippant at it's best............it was supposed to be a serious film..........and ot in the least bit thrilling............
Rainer 16.02.2014 в 04:33
Thanks for all the great ideas!!! I love the font you used for the word Halloween in the banner that reads, "#30 plus feuretad Halloween and fall pumpkin decorating ideas and recipes. Could you tell me the name of that font and where I might be able to find it? Thank you so much.
Naara 16.02.2014 в 16:27
dit :64% des Irakiens conside8rent la de9mocratie comme la meieullre forme de gouvernement, dit le vide9o.Question de comparer, en Allemagne la question est fre9quemment demande9e dans les sondages. Et la moyenne de oui n est que de 89%. http://xbnmatflpw.com [url=http://asqawdj.com]asqawdj[/url] [link=http://chcxydzlpa.com]chcxydzlpa[/link]
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Andrey 17.02.2014 в 20:03
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Nadege 01.03.2014 в 23:37
/ Hi Erica, I made them 12 days ago and they still look good! Can't tell I didn't bleach them. I'll upatde the post when they start to go bad
Eisa 02.03.2014 в 02:55
Hi NitinGood to see your comments.I was ireaittrd with the unusual bashing which SRK / Don received for no good reason.....and also, it is always good to write about something newcheers
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